Why music matters on your big day
Music is the heartbeat of your wedding ceremony. It sets the mood, marks the big moments, and creates memories that last a lifetime. Whether you dream of a grand entrance with a string quartet, a special song during the signing of the register, or a joyful singalong with your wedding guests, the right music choices will make your ceremony truly yours.
At Blissberry Ceremonies, we believe your wedding ceremony music should reflect your love story and your personality. Forget the “rules”.
Let’s create a soundtrack for your big day that feels just right for you.
Key moments for wedding ceremony music
Wondering when to play music during your ceremony? Here’s a quick guide to the most popular moments:
1. Pre-ceremony (prelude music)
Set the scene as your guests arrive. Soft background music—think acoustic guitar, string quartet, or your favourite tunes—creates a welcoming atmosphere.
2. Processional (grand entrance)
This is your big moment! The processional song accompanies the bridal party and the newly married couple as they walk down the aisle. Classic choices like Pachelbel’s Canon or something a little different, like an instrumental version of your favourite song, work beautifully.
An example of this is at one wedding, the bridal party danced down the aisle. This came about because they are festival lovers and wanted to make a grand entrance. This isn’t for everyone, of course, but it goes to show that anything goes. It certainly was memorable.
3. During the ceremony
With a celebrant-led ceremony, you have the freedom to include music wherever you like. Consider:
- A special song after your vows
- A group sing-along for a personal touch.
- Instrumental music during a sand ceremony or unity ritual
4. Signing of the register
This is a lovely time for a reflective or romantic piece. Live musicians or a playlist can provide a gentle soundtrack as you complete the legalities.
5. Recessional (exit)
Celebrate your first steps as a newly married couple with an upbeat song! This is a great way to kick off the festivities and get everyone in the mood for the wedding reception. Remember Love Actually when the gospel choir and band stood up and played?
6. Cocktail hour
Keep the vibe going as guests mingle. A jazz band, acoustic duo, or curated playlist can set the perfect tone for the rest of your day.
Wedding ceremony music checklist
Not sure what songs you need? Here’s a handy wedding song checklist to help you plan:
Ceremony Moment | Song Example | Live/Recorded | Notes |
Pre-ceremony | “Can’t Help Falling in Love” | Either | Gentle, romantic welcome |
Processional | “Pachelbel’s Canon in D” | Either | Timeless classic |
Bridal party walk | “A Thousand Years” (Christina Perri) | Either | Modern, emotional |
Signing of the register | “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” | Either | Reflective, soothing |
Recessional | “Signed, Sealed, Delivered” (Stevie Wonder) | Either | Upbeat, joyful exit |
Cocktail hour | Jazz standards or acoustic covers | Live | Relaxed, social atmosphere |
Special song | Your favourite tune | Either | Personal touch, anywhere in the ceremony |
Tip: You can add additional songs for special moments, like a family member’s performance or a group sing-along.
When money is tight
If you’re working with a smaller budget, don’t worry. Your ceremony music can still be every bit as meaningful. Platforms like Spotify, Apple Music, or YouTube make it easy to create a personalised playlist for each special moment, from your walk down the aisle to your joyful exit.
All you need is a good speaker (many venues can lend you one, or you can borrow from a friend) and someone you trust to press play at the right time.
Want to make it even more special? Share your playlist with guests before the big day and invite them to suggest songs that mean something to you as a couple. Afterwards, you can send the playlist out as a keepsake, letting everyone relive those magical moments.
Remember, it’s not about how much you spend – it’s about choosing the music that feels perfectly “you.”
Choosing the right music for your ceremony
Live musicians vs. recorded music
- Live musicians (string quartet, harp, acoustic guitar, jazz band) add a magical, personal touch and can adapt to the flow of your ceremony.
- Recorded music offers endless options and is an excellent idea if you want a mix of genres or your favourite artists.
Types of music
- Classical: Elegant and timeless (think Pachelbel’s Canon, Bridal Chorus)
- Modern: Acoustic versions of pop songs, or your favourite love songs
- Instrumental: Perfect for background moments or a subtle vibe
- Group singing: A great way to involve your wedding guests and create a communal atmosphere
Personalising your music choices
Your ceremony should sound like you! Whether you want a traditional church wedding feel, a civil ceremony, or something a little different, choose songs that mean something to you as a couple. Don’t be afraid to include a special song that tells your love story or gets everyone on the dance floor.
FAQs: Your wedding ceremony music questions answered
How many songs do I need for my wedding ceremony?
Most ceremonies include music for the prelude, processional, signing of the register, and recessional. You can add more for special moments or rituals.
What’s a good processional song?
Classics like “Canon in D” or “A Thousand Years” are always popular, but any song that feels right for your grand entrance is perfect.
Should I hire live musicians or use a playlist?
Both are great options! Live musicians add atmosphere and flexibility, while a playlist gives you total control over your music choices.
Can I have music during the ceremony itself?
Absolutely! With a celebrant-led ceremony, you can include music wherever you like—during readings, rituals, or even a group sing-along.
Do I need different songs for a religious ceremony or a civil ceremony?
Some religious ceremonies have guidelines about music, but civil ceremonies and celebrant-led weddings offer much more flexibility.
Blissberry’s approach: making your ceremony unique
Your wedding day should be as unique as your love story. With a celebrant-led ceremony, you have the freedom to choose the perfect soundtrack for every part of your day.
Whether you want a string quartet for your grand entrance, a family member to sing your favourite tune, or a group sing-along, I’ll help you create special moments you’ll remember forever.
Ready to plan your perfect wedding ceremony music?
Let’s make your big day unforgettable with music that truly reflects you. Book a free discovery call with Blissberry Ceremonies, and let’s start planning your perfect ceremony together.
